Armistice Day And Reflections Of The Sussex Aftermath

It goes against everything Harry was brought up with. If this is HOW he really thinks then dear G-d save us from the moron. I tend to think this is Markles idea, she hasn’t a clue what any of the “duties” a member of the BRF does nor the reason for them. As far as she’s concerned it’s just always another event to dress down for (when in the UK & as a working Royal) so much her disgust at any of the pomp and ritual for this country (UK) she caused enough problems when supposedly working – which from my view was never a job done willingly or with real emotion. Last years attempt at the Fields of Poppies she couldnt’ even manage a straight forward walk, plant cross, 1 step back , kook at Cross with thought of giving the life to allow freedom, then three more steps back & turn into her place. Even the youngest of the children who could walk can do this. M decided just how many ways she was going to mess up EVERY occasion because she didn’t get what she wanted. From the tiara to living in Windsor Castle, to the title of Princess, & the list goes on & on.

Surely this is the LAST time to ALLOW ANY LEE WAY to be given to the pair? This is so unimaginably wrong & the type of behaviour NOT of members of the BRF.

TIME TO TAKE THE TITLES. They don’t want them – if they did they wouldn’t be so disrespective in their behaviour.

Here we go again – More lies!

The Harkles

Hang Onto The Black History Month Bandwagon

 

Harry claims his “awaking” 

I’d like to think Harry was awakened at birth, or possibly every morning after he has been sleeping but it seems not only does he not know what he is saying let alone what he is now doing, it sounds a very  stupid phrase to use having lived in the very multi-cultural country of his birth. Has Harry learnt nothing in life? From naked Harry publicly apologised to those men he treated with disdain? Who does he think he is? A British Prince by birth, but pushing word salad politics to another country? No one has the right to do that, let alone a man who is desperate to hold onto his Royal titles, wants to have his Military titles given back to him whilst still leaving the BRF for a so-called life of “PRIVACY”?

With his wife who most definitely is using her “Royal titles & connections” for money, position & entitlement, Harry should be ashamed that his behaviour towards his father, brother and  Grandparents is cringingly close to being treason.

I’m embarrassed by their serious lack of intelligence & integrity. Both have deliberately without sound reason blasted the UK, the Monarchy & the Commonwealth of being racist, unaware of colour, whilst preaching word salads of total & utter nonsense as their “Party Piece for Netflix”.

Having broken every protocol during her time in the UK & BRF, MM is now pursuing her ideas of what she thinks (but actually hasn’t got a clue of) we in the entire world should behave! Abuse of their titles, dismissive of the country as a whole along with some really dismissive behaviour when on Zoom with members of the Commonwealth only goes to show that neither have a clue & the only thing that matters to them is their words & the money (without actually any knowledge of the meaning of their words) they hope to get from using the.

 

Despicable immoral & dangerous are just a few words to describe the Sussex pair.

Fr”repayment” of Frrroggmore

The debt HARRY & MEGHAN have will never get repaid. It can’t because it is NOT just money, or vision or feelings, but it is duty, integrity & ethics.

It was unethical to whinge & moan about how hard their lives were when they were in the poorest place in Africa where girls were terrified to even go out into the street for rape & murder. I wonder HOW THOSE WOMEN FELT after listening to their affectations? It was immoral, unethical & really appalling behaviour & Harry should have known better.

Everything Harry once stood for has vanished. His patronages of Invictus & the walking wounded were once something Harry could be proud about. They were worthy & he was 100% committed to these. Then along came MEGHAN the change in Harry has been totally 180 degrees. He has shown nothing worthy or good to be proud of since. He turned up late, left early, looked grumpy as hell & behaved as it – well just like her – ALL about ME.

With MEGHAN along his side grasping & clutching as if she was a blind person who needed help to walk in a straight line (perhaps she was always inebriated?) Then there was the (what looked like a deliberate choice) dropping one of the military Charities – The Deal Barracks – in order to see the premier of the Lion King I mean come on for F***s Sake IT’s a CHILDREN’S Film! But of course, MEGHAN knew what she wanted & Harry became the voice of “What Meghan Wants Meghan GETS”. MEGHAN wanted money, inches in the papers, to meet & greet all these so-called celebrities (I see nothing to celebrate for people who do voice overs in a film that is totally animated by a computers 1’s & 0’s), It wasn’t actually WORKING in the BRF either but SPENDING time looking at what SHE could GET!

The pair moaned & groaned about things that were totally untrue- lying to the press & public, throwing accusations of racial abuse from members of the BRF, telling more lies to cover other lies which inevitably only showed the double mountain of lies , the hypocrisy of the pair & their total ignorance at HOW they are perceived by the UK people. Meghan had 4 Patronages & spent 72 days as a working royal (NOT A SENIOR ROYAL). But remember that although we “give” her 72 days, everything to MEGHAN is “BORING” after about 10 minutes. So, had they “worked” for 24 hours per day that would be 1,728 hours, but we need to remove about 8 hours for sleep per 24 hrs,(576 hrs) at least an hour for each meal (288 hrs), look at time taken to get to these events 1.5 hrs each way (504 hrs) & what in hours do we get? 360 hours – which gives 15 days. And I think I am being Generous! 15 full days from engagement to leaving the UK under 2 yrs. If I was their boss, ear, clip, drop, remove & charge!

Their self-indulgent petulance has left many of us feeling that a very bitter pill had been given & that we had to just swallow it. However, even once Harry & Meghan HAD left the Royal Family their immoral unethical & beyond rude behaviour continued. Meghan spouting off political feelings, how women have got to vote (the right TO vote means you have a CHOICE to vote or NOT to vote – But Meghan wanted everyone to vote HER WAY. Then it went off to another big issue that in the USA does seem to be worse than in the UK – BLM. This sad case of a shooting of a darkly coloured man by a fair coloured policeman led to riots around the world with destruction of property people businesses & even historical places & statues. Meghan put herself INTO the very centre of this – but really had NOTHING of value to say. They felt they had to tell everyone how bad this racial tension is and proceeded to look at some historical data (not all of it – that would have balanced their argument) no, only the worst possible parts of slavery. Harry set off telling the commonwealth and just about anyone who has ears or eyes telling us we had to apologise for OUR behaviour! Hang on a moment! UK was one of the 1st countries to abolish slavery about 300 years ago – & yet we must apologise & seek forgiveness from the past.

I have a problem with that. We look back on time & history to PREVENT the same catastrophes from happening again. You cannot change the past you can only look learn & change yourself. Meghan only ever claimed her race to be Caucasian, in all her years of trying to get an acting job her CV stated Caucasian. In fact, it was only in the run up to her wedding to Harry that the words bi-racial came out. I didn’t know she was anything than she presented herself as – an American who was also a bad actress. Moving on – after the VOTE & BLM there was the costly purchase of a mansion in California 9 bedrooms & 16 bathrooms. I don’t actually care about the number of bedrooms or bathrooms or the pool, gardens rooms & playground etc. what made me upset (& angry I guess) was the fact they were still being given security from the UK (6 Royal Protection Officers) as well as some other security details from the USA.

That they had hardly ever (I’m still not convinced that they EVER Lived in it) lived in the home that HMTQ had gifted them on their marriage. Obviously, it wasn’t as big or as grand as they (Meghan?) wanted. Ammer Hall is Meghan’s start point I guess with Windsor Castle being her aim. Ammer Hall was gifted to Prince William & Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge on their wedding. It too needed work to make it inhabitable & HMTQ actually paid for all of that – which strangely cost an awful lot less than FC!

So, we are told Harry has paid off Frogmore Cottage.

That the pair will pay rent on it so they can use it when/IF they ever come back to the UK. Interestingly is that prince Charles funded the pair about £2.4 million per annum (but a massive amount more in their 1st year of marriage). Told to reduce their spending only served to make Meghan grumpier & Harry to look paler & even more depressed (is that possible?)

On to Harry’s Royal Patronages, left the UK to have a “Private Life” such as a Non royal (conveniently not leaving all their titles behind) & we have seen more of both Harry & Meghan in the last 7 months than the last 3 years! Give it a rest guys! We ARE NOT interested in your deviant behaviour your total lack of manners & we would SO much like to have the cost of security for your OTT wedding repayed!

Letters to and from Feline Friends (From Quintus & Elgar)

2017 – 2018

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On 12 October 2017
Dear Elgar, I think you are too young to realise that humans are not as well adapted as we felines. They do not seem to have our ability to just let go and curl up and sleep. They mainly seem to sleep when it is dark. Poor things, I think it’s because their eyes are not as good as ours.You must be aware that if you want her to go on serving you let her have a good night’s sleep. I speak from experience.
Purrs from Quintus.

13 Oct 2017
​Dea-purr Quintus
she says I is to say thank you for your email even though I felt you were tellings mes offs. Iz gets excited when zshe turns overs in bedz – I think she mights swant zto tickle my belly so I goes ands nuzzles her, somesztimes she pulls my next sto herz which makes me purrrrrrrrrrrrr lotz, butz Iz sdnont understands whys shes cross wiv me & like today at lightening ups inz the zskys wiv birdies teaszings mees she putz me out of her room nd shutsz door on me. I is cryings & puts my paws (thayz be bigg paws I haz *purrrrrrrrrr*) ins gapz under doors but she ignores me. I waz veryz sad nd I cryyd.

I is confoozd I just brought her a prezant of birdzy nd she pickd meez up nd putz me outz de door! I  brought zit backs again but now shez stopped me comings in. Meow, 😦 I donts understands)
Mew mew meow, moarghomew
Elgar xx

On 13 October 2017
Dear Elgar,
I was not trying to tell you off, more just trying to make you understand that humans are rather unlike us. I’m sorry yours was so misunderstanding of you. It is hard I know. For  some reason mine get narky when I get on the table. They don’t seem to realise it seems natural to me. They will spray me with water. Can’t understand why.
Purrrrs and a nose rub, from Quintus.

25th Nov 2017
Dear Elgar,
I hope your human is feeling a bit better. My human has thought of her lots, she has told me about her. I understand you are bigger than me. How is that for you are still not much more than a kitten?Though you do seem quite adventurous, and an expert at hunting. They do not always seem to appreciate this. They do seem to have some funny ideas, mine seem to get cross when I get on the table. It is such a good place to see will is going on, and I can even see out of the window if I face that way. She sometimes sprays me with water which I think is unnecessary, unkind. Funny things humans.
Purrrrrrs to you and my aunty Muffin, and Arya, Quintus 

Dearapurrr Quintus
I iz understanding yous – this one had a shock last nights (purr purr purr miaowwwwwwwwwww!! So funny) I had posted a toad through the slightly blocked cat flap (I has got Muffin to type – much faster & I am licking her ears) but my hooman didn’t know until she came to lock up last night. She was squealing (I don’t think it was with delight though 😦  ) as she had to pick it up & put it out of the flap – I was watching & it kepts leaping all over the place she got it onto the cat flap door but as she tried to put it out it jumped at her – she said some words I don’t hear very often – Muffs sez it’s shwairing – it took hooman over 5 mins to get toady out the hole! I waz giggling inside so much I fellz over n my legs were in the air!

Poor you being shqirted wiv water – not nice ats all! My hooman makes a noise like a snake which I knows is bad so I always try to gets as flats as possibles as snakes are naszty thhngs . sometimes I has to run away, but so far no sprayz wiz water.
I got my hooman up today at 8am (so she sez) its waz urlier az dem birdiez wer teasing me so muches.

I is off to getz more birdz I thinks – I don’ts knows waz the problemz iz about it coming ins the house to be eats – after all my others foods are INDOORS – silly hooman!
Purrs n no fleas (I don’t like havings that stuff on my neck but the bittings has stopped so I gez its a goods things reeelys)
Speaks soon Elgar xx *purrrrrr*

On 27 Nov 2017

Miaowy greetings Uncle Quintus 

I is finally able to get my paws on hooman’s computery thing. Thank you for your writings. My hooman has been very poorly mother says & I am supposed to be keeping her warm, buts this is difficults at times as she moves me off, or says “Feet” – I knows I is meant to sits on her feet as they get cold (I never has cold feets have you?) but they are bony & she wriggles so I need to pounce, then she gets cross with me.

I sometimes worry about this thing of my hooman getting cross. Yesterday she smacked my nose! I was not happy at all with this, and the only reason was I was trying to clean out her breakfast bowl before she had finished – I don’t think I was unreasonable as she had taken HOURS to eat it…

Last night Aunty Muffin boxed my ears – I was just supporting her in keeping our hooman warm, I can’t help it if I am a bit bigger than Aunty Muffin – she needs to let ME have some room so I can be comfy shouldn’t she?

Hooman have me a deep groom this morning – she has taken her time over it! I like them every other day – but at least I has had one now. I stretched out for her, but something happened & I forgots – I puts my teeth & claws into my hooman. She put the furminator away & left the bedroom where we was. I got lonely & I still wanted my belly tickled! Such unreasonable behaviour from her at the moment.

She is also very smelly now, & has a REALLY noisy thing that she uses which makes her look like a dragon smoking (I has heard of these mystical creatures – I would like to grow up & be a dragon I think, does you know how I grows up to be a dragon?) she also coughs really loudly at times – so much so I have fallen off her legs – how is I supposed to do my “job” as foot warmer if she kicks me off?

I is in a mess here I thinks. nothing is going the way it should be. I is not worshipped – although my hooman does get me excellent food I suppose. So far she hasn’t sprayed me with the wet stuff deliberately – how bad is your hooman!?! That’s such an insult (unless you wanted some water – we does not have a table as far as I knows.

Right I has better sends this to yous before she comes back from the little room. Aunty Muffin is now sitting where I WANT TO SIT. It is just NOT FAIR! I is the biggest, bestest & only boy cat – surely they should treats me the bests? I is still only a baby in age.

I found a small squeaky thing outside – but it had a pointed nose – my hooman says its a shrew – & that it wouldn’t make good eatings – she knows about stuff like that so I left it on the mat in the kitchen for her. She didn’t say thank you. it’s all too confoosing for me.

Am I at the worst home ever?

sadly love Elgar xXx

28th Nove 2017
Purrrs Elgar,
That was a good piece you sent. I will try to answer your questions First I don’t think your home is bad. There are many worse I understand, where you are not fed well and can be shut out when you want to go in. Humans are funny strange animals. They do odd things like getting wet all over in a thing called a bath, but seem to be almost afraid of rain. I don’t like rain much myself but it is natural.

My human tortured me the other day and said it was for my own good. First I was wound up in a towel, and held by the other human in my house, but I got free, cos I’m strong, but it was no use for the door and window was shut so they got me again. So undignified, I think I deserve more respect. Some fur was cut on my neck and some horrible stinging stuff put on. I got out as soon as the window was opened after I had given her a killing look, and almost decided not to go back but I got hungry.

I am training her, I just look at the food in my dish  but I will only eat it if she adds some of my treats, this way I get a few extra, which is good. She says I will get too fat and already looking fatter. It’s only my winter fur is thick, I don’t have to put on funny clothes and she puts on on lots if it is cold then SHE is fat.
I guess your human is in a funny mood because she is not well. I would not leave until she is better, if she is still odd then you could visit me,
I hope things improve soon.
Purrrs , Quintus 

On 29 November 2017
Dear Elgar,Your message was very kind, but really my humans are not really that bad, and I am still training them. I have always plenty of dry food available, and water to drink, though I prefer the water that is outside. I too get treats every evening, and have trained her to give me extra sometimes.

I don’t usually sleep on my humans bed, but do sometimes. I prefer to be where I can roam as she keeps her door shut at night. At the moment my favourite place is a chair half way up the stairs. I can keep an eye on what is happening, though this cold weather makes me sleepy. Today I only went out for short times.

I have not heard about this dreadful monster but maybe I will stay in, especially she says it will be freezing tonight. Even with my thick fur I can not like that much cold.
I am glad your human is a bit better.  I think you are all looking after her very nicely. Just remember not to wake her up. 
Many purrrrrs to you, Quintus.

2nd December 2017
Dear Elgar,
You send very good letters. Thanks. Presents are things that you give or receive. The food you sent me was a present, sometimes to make things complicated it is called a gift. Humans seem to like having different words for the same thing. Very odd. I still have a little of your special food for it is given to r almost like a great, though more than a great. It sounds fun that you search for yours. Mine are put in a special little dish. The special ones for cleaning my teeth are put there too, but at a different time.
Yes, it is too cold.  I usually go out lots, but I suppose staying on my chair much of the time. I think I will go out and do, but come in again very soon.
I am intrigued , what is a furminator? I think you must be cleaver to hold it.
I have you are kind to warm your humans bed, but I guess it is a comfortable place for you too.
My human has a cold but she thinks it is almost better, so maybe she will see you on Monday.
Purrrr from Quintus, and to Aunty. Muffin and your mother too.

6th December 2017
Purrs Elgar,
I am sorry your human is unhappy. I hope she is feeling better today. I nudged my human and she weighed me. She says I am 12lbs, but our scales are not as good as yours. We will try again. My last letter was a bit funny. Maybe the cold does not suit me! I know I have been indoors much more than usual. Fresh air is good for my thinking. (But not too cold).I hope Aunty Muffin is more happy . I s she sick too or just worried about your human. My human says yours has got pneumonia. Perhaps it’s called that because it makes them feel moany. Is yours moany or just sad?
Please give Aunty Muffin a nose rub from me, and of course to you. Lots of purrs, Quintus

Oooh Elgar,
what do you think of this white stuff they call snow? When I was a kitten I liked to play in it, but this morning I only stayed out briefly, It is still snowing and the trees look as if they are dressed in white, though I am going to curl up on my chair soon. A time called Christmas will be here soon I think. Maybe you will get a present then. I was given a funny mouse like thing but it was not alive, but it had a wonderful scent, which made me play with it as if it was alive. The humans have more things but I liked the paper and ribbon best, and there can be a useful box. They do odd things like put a tree inside and then hang things on it. I thought these were for playing with, but my human says NO! She  was very cross when I tried to claim the 🌲. (But that was when I was a kitten). I still play with the hanging things when there is no-one there, though usually they shut the door. I don’t think you should try to climb the indoor tree if you have one as I think you would be too heavy for it. I look forward to hearing your you. Purrrrrrs to Aunty Muffin and your mother, and a nose rub to you. Quintus.

10th December 2017
Dear Uncle Quintus
Thank yous got your letter. It is very cold outside isn’t it? Mother, Aunty Muffin & I stayed with our hooman for a Very long time – she didn’t go to sleep very early – not su/purrre why, but she’s kept us all up until about birdie time – but I waz on her lap downstairs whilst she was awake so I go so many cuddles that I ignored the birds & we all slept in until this afternoon. Hooman is cross with herself for not sleeping at what she thinks are the right times to sleep – I don’t understand this as any time is a good time for 40winks!
I has been better behaved & have been rewarded for it – so until it becomes boring I will carry on – last night I was chasing treats all around her bedroom! The girls were boring on the bed eating their pile so delicately! Pooh girls are silly! I think it is much more fun to chase my bits of treats – sometimes I miss a bit & find it later!

Hooman wants to know how much of my special food you have left? She said something about presents – which I am confused about a bit – but I think you will get some for your present. I tried to help her do some drawing yesterday – but it seems my paws are just a bit too wide to hold a pencil – I can hold the furminator and it remove some loose fur around my face – I is very clever to do this – neither of the girls can do it!
I’m off upstairs to preheat the bed – hee hee what she doesn’t see she can’t worry about!
miaory purrs  – Keep Warm
Elgar XXX

Dear Elgar,

I think you are too young to realise that humans are not as well adapted as we felines. They do not seem to have our ability to just let go and curl up and sleep. They mainly seem to sleep when it is dark. Poor things, I think it’s because their eyes are not as good as ours.
You must be aware that if you want her to go on serving you let her have a good night’s sleep.
I speak from experience.
Purrs from Quintus

The Desperate Sweaty Stench Of The Sussexes

As ever the words from HarryMarkle’s blog hit right where the pain is. Sadly the pain is the UK publics, as we are still paying for the gruesome twosome’s security! (HAS ANYTHING CHANGED?). On top of all the letter writing (give me a break MM your English when written is appalling especially considering you made English your Major at NorthWestern! However, I digress.. Nothing is going in the right direction for MM – Harry hasn’t a clue what she’s got going on in her head as she never actually voices it – has anyone else noticed this? MM talks in generics – but if it came to a business plan (which both of them should have already created BEFORE indulging in their layabout manner in a Mansion belonging to a guy who has worked hard in various ways!) If the Sussex’s want to move to supporting themselves (Personally I don’t think they REALLY WANT TO WORK to EARN Money – they want Money pouring in for absolutely no reason – like it is at the moment – from Charles) neither one of them can get off the ground!

Before leaving the RF a business plan should have been written, a loan from a bank should have sufficed to set up their business (which of course needed a CLEAR & VALID POINT of DIRECTION (yes at this point we all fall over laughing) 😂😂 and the skeleton of their new business would or should have been created. If they had actually taken ownership of their business plan they may well have managed to move forwards even through the Covid-19 pandemic, after all, much of what MM likes to do is Social Media based.

There is no business plan, no actually direction & not a CLUE as to WHAT these two want to create to earn them much needed money. I would have possibly given them £5 towards a good cause IF they had
1. A well defined & followed Business Plan
2. Found a small home with 3 beds which they could afford to pay the bills for whilst they grew their fledgling family & business
3. Not had hissy fits all over the place over nothing that makes sense
4. Stopped preening & actually could be seen being creative for their business – look at Catherine – she’s been televised at the garden centre, at a school & this week having paid for the plants at the garden centre herself, was then helping to repot all the new items for a patio in a children’s Hospice. She got her hands dirty, could be seen on her knees helping to give others something to do & to make things a bit nicer for those children in their last few months/weeks/days. She had promised to plant a Sunflower for a boy who’s brother died recently – and there was Catherine with a HUGE sunflower plant that she had grown at home! These are actions that would (if the Cambridge’s were a business) that would show work being done by the directors to grow their “brand/business” etc.

Interestingly we don’t see anything about Ammer Hall in the news – other than when the Cambridge’s were clapping for the NHS. Why is this? Well it’s PRIVATE & the Cambridge’s acknowledge that the press like new from them, normally they would have been on walk about but Covid-19 has put a bit of a stop to that – but regardless as future King & Queen Consort both William & Catherine give the press some personal photographs showing the children and themselves which is why there are no telephoto lenses half a mile long outside the fences of the fields where their home is! Look at the Sussex’s – in a gated area, a mansion twice the size of Ammer Hall (10 beds) & a pool to dream of – but rather than give to the Press a couple of really nice family pictures they scream “we want privacy” then go about making a terrible noise & ferocious waves so many times per day that the planet is saturated with the stinky sicky gloop of “PR stories” (cough!) Pictures where they can’t really be seen as the camera is too small, and so forth.

I’d be a Cambridge any day – not for all the money/clothes/lifestyle etc. but for the actual PRIVACY they get by giving a couple of photos to the press for birthdays, anniversary’s special days & for not demanding that the RF Changes for them- more they change themselves to the RF.

In the end Charles talked about streamlining the Monarchy – I see a no better way to do this than chop off everything he pays to his youngest son who will never amount to anything as long as he’s married to MM – & since they are “both very much in love” it will be a cold day in Hell before Harry leaves MM – even if HE KNOWS what she is doing to him & his health!

A Boffin's avatarHarry Markle ~ Traditional British Pro-monarchy Satire!

The classic tactic of deflection was employed by the Sussexes to steer attention away from LCC’s book, but did  it work? In a word, ‘no’, even though there was a barrage of (largely ignored) fake PR stories that littered the gossip sites, accompanied by a video clip from Harry that would strategically pop up somewhere on social media. How desperate are they given that it’s been publicly announced that the Duchy of Cornwall (where Charles receives an income), like most businesses has been hit financially by the coronavirus pandemic? That means Charles can’t (or won’t be able to) provide extensive financial assistance to his children, in other words he doesn’t have the spare cash to fund an excessive lifestyle such as living in Los Angeles for the Sussex duo, compared to the working Cambridges.

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~*~ Social Influencers~*~

How do people become social influencers? Or even WHY do WE NEED social influencers? Who are they, what do they do & WHY has the more recent spat between 2 of them become more than a “spat”

 

In the good old days we had adverts posted on cars, packs of cigarettes, walls, Advertising boards, sports centres, stadiums & so forth. The “Social Influencers” back then were Models wearing “haute
couture” in magazines found at the dentist’s, doctor’s etc.

We may have wanted something like they were wearing -and if it was a practical item we may have gone & got the pattern, material & made something along the same lines. When we wore these items out they in a very small way became a “Social Influence”. Time moves on

 

Today we see, hear & almost smell things that are “up for grabs” often things not really what is needed or even wanted are landed on our doorstep 36 hours after clicking the item on the internet. We have so much more to “influence” our minds & groups of people started to realise that if they brought things they used, or knew a famous person use/wear/like then they could “push” the somewhat sheepish mindset of the not very observant public into clicking, liking & if it worked – into
buying that item. Reviews get posted online & suddenly there is a “Trend” So what happened last week with two SI’s that got them all caught up into something that became racial?

 

I am NOT a fan of either of these women – I personally think that both of them are making headlines for the wrong reasons & that is what is wrong with our “Media output” these days – we now only look for negatives instead of positives. There are at least two sides to every coin (I count three – head, tail & edge!) and we are all entitled to have our own view. It seems however, some people dont like that we have a different viewpoint from theirs & this is where things start to go wrong:

 

12 June 2020 extracts from BBC

A Canadian broadcaster has pulled the TV series of a fashion stylist who was accused of “white privilege” in a row with a black social media influencer. SE had a dispute with JM over her (“lack of”) support for the anti-racism protests sweeping the US. SE said the TV presenter, a close friend of MM threatened to damage her career. JM 40, has since apologised to SE, accepting she should have done more to speak out against racism. See below where I take the so called threat apart.

 

On Thursday, Canadian network CTV said JM’s reality TV show, I Do, Redo, had been removed with immediate effect. The network said the show – which saw couples redo weddings that had gone wrong – had been withdrawn from all its channels and platform because  JM’s conduct conflicted with its “commitment to diversity and equality”.

 

In a statement on Twitter, JM said she respected CTV’s decision and had decided to step back from professional life for the time being. The network’s announcement was made after SE recounted (so this was done after everything had happened, & SE “re-told her side of the argument thus making it more salacious) details of her argument with JM in a 12-minute-long video posted to her Instagram page.

 

What did SE say?

SE said JM “took offence” with SE’s statement that JM wasn’t promoting enough of the Black Lives Matter movement, which has spearheaded protests in response to the killing of George Floyd in
police custody. “What happened next was a series of very problematic behaviour and antics that ultimately resulted in her [JM] sending me a threat in writing last Wednesday,” SE said. The social media influencer, who has more than 100,000 followers on Instagram, said the threat was a textbook example of “white privilege”.

 

THIS IS THE START OF RAMPING UP SE’s ACTUAL racial slur!

 

SE Instagram: I’ve been silent. Not anymore! I’m used to being so transparent on this platform. I think it’s the main reason why most of you follow me.  Today, I’m opening up about something that has been haunting me for the last week.  I have felt like a complete fraud fighting for racial equality and using my voice openly here, while letting a white woman silenced mine behind closed doors.  In sharing this very personal story, I know that I am risking a lot. Opening myself up to criticism, bullying and potential ramifications with my job in this space. However, I must speak my truth. Enough is enough. Hopefully my voice will be heard by many and help change things for the next generation and for my daughter Maxwell… because I will be dammed if my child ever has to deal with this level of ignorance. End of Instagram post by SE

So this was all said & done LAST WEEK – an entire Week BEFORE releasing the data as “new” this means time has been spent to “Craft the tale”, make it out to be far worse than it was to begin with & from the tale from SE JM has lost her livelihood & all her markets/TV shows & been branded as a Racist. This is Not “UP TO THE MOMENT”, but being created with 2020 hindsight!

SE ACKNOWLEDGES THIS! But has not dealt it kindly to tell the full truth – only HER VERSION of HER TRUTH – SE has been “attacked for her entire life – due only to the colour of her skin?” 

 

In a message to SE, JM allegedly wrote: “I have also spoken to companies and people about the way you have treated me unfairly. You think your voice matters. Well, it only matters if you express it with kindness and without shaming people who are simply trying to learn. Good luck.”

 

Is this really threatening? Break it down – I have spoken to companies & people about the way you’ve treated me – i.e. friends in positions in companies she worked with, & other people. Their answer was obviously the next comment “You think your voice matters? Well it only matters if you
express it with kindness & without shaming people who are trying to learn” –

I actually DO NOT see this as a threat, just how JM obviously needed support from others on why SE was calling her a racist because JM wasn’t 100% BLM on her “platform”. 

 

WHY SHOULD ANYONE BE 100% PRO anything because OTHER PEOPLE THINK IT’S IMPORTANT?

We all choose what we want to be important to us – can’t we?  Is our right to have our own opinions still functioning? The message, SE said, left her “paralysed in fear”.

A GROWN -UP WOMAN WITH A HUSBAND & CHILD IS PARALYSED IN FEAR? WTF! Talk about going OTT!

 

“She (JM) is very well aware of her wealth,  her perceived power  and perceived privilege because of the  COLOR OF HER SKIN  and that, my friends, gave her the momentary confidence to come for my livelihood in writing,”  she said.  She also expressed disappointment that   JM had NOT used her platform to support Black Lives Matter,  despite being “very vocal” about other causesThis is the CRUNCH of the entire “spat” & when it suddenly went into “Racism”

 

This was surprising, SE said, given JM’s friendship with “one of the most famous black women in the world”, referring to  Meghan Markle.

Hang ON a moment you cannot use this as a reason to charge a person as a racist because she doesn’t support your movement 100% on her personal platform. Why SHOULD SHE? OR ANYONE? ALM! (All Lives Matter)

 

What did JM say in response?

She has shown contrition in two separate statements she released on her Twitter and Instagram profiles. “As some of you may have seen, SE and I had a disagreement,” she wrote, in a statement shared with her almost 400,000 Instagram followers on Thursday. “She rightfully called me out for not doing enough when it came to engaging in the important and difficult conversation around race and injustice in our society. “I took it personally and that was wrong. I know I need to do better.
Those of us with a platform must use it to speak out.” She apologised to SE, saying she did “not intend in any way to jeopardise” her career.  JM she had “no intention of pursuing any legal action”,
countering reports that SE had been “privately threatened with a law suit”.

 

SE– Instagram

It’s taken me a long time to jump back on here and share something on my feed. I admire all of you posting on your feeds either amplifying your own voice or amplifying black voices. I have found the last week incredibly exhausting. Trying to maintain my composure in this space witnesses optical
allyship, gaslighting, media propaganda and just flat out ignorance. Having to stay strong and positive at home, fearing my energy will be absorbed by the most important person to me, my child.


Truthfully, I am also still incredibly shocked that I am witnessing a time where my people have been given the mic to finally speak our truth after being silenced for 400 years. With that comes a feeling of being overwhelmed…well for me anyways. I just told a friend this morning as I broke into tears, that it’s like I’ve had my lips sewn shut for 40 years and someone has just cut the thread, allowing me to finally speak about all I’ve witnessed and endured being a black female growing up in Canada and living in the US. Like where do I even start? And now that the conversations are finally flowing,

 

I think I can speak on behalf of other black women (and perhaps men as well) I am now realizing the amount of microaggression and racism I was exposed to throughout my life and expected to suppress. Can’t lie, I am so angry. Realizing that some of the shame I may have felt when I was younger wasn’t my fault, but the fault of people’s ignorant, privileged, problematic behaviour <insert long exasperated sigh here I have a role. I have a voice…no matter how many people try and tell me I don’t. As the days and weeks pass, our timelines will inevitably drift back to more posts about our everyday lives and sponsored content, but I’m going to promise to not stop talking or sharing. We have come so far and we ain’t going back because #blacklivesmatter           End of SE’s 2nd Instagram Post

 

It is my personal feeling that we are entitled to our own amount of “support for other causes” when on our social media sites. There should NOT be an ALL WHITE or ALL BLACK definition which we have to conform to. No one should have the right to force another into changing what they believe or put up in support of anyone else.

In total honesty not one person on this planet is “White” or “Black” – we are all “coloured” just some more deeply than others. Think of how much money goes into less coloured folk trying to go darker in saloons, on the beach or in their homes with some weird stuff they slap on their legs, arms etc.

Whilst the world is still reeling from Covid-19’s first round, Riots have covered the globe with some of the most extreme violence towards others including pulling down or desecrating statues which are part of every country’s history. I view history as this : History is where we look back & learn from, make better choices from & of course get that 20:20 vision called Hindsight. We then take what we have learned (I am assuming that the majority of people are doing this!) & use that to shape our future – Look back & Learn, Look forward to life. 

I am not condoning bulling behaviour, nor am I being racist in my thoughts, there is a difference between your thoughts/words & racism. This post is neither racist or bullying – it is meant to be a reasonably logic based post for discussion.

 

~*~ “Social Influencers” ~*~

How do people become social influencers? Or even WHY do WE NEED social influencers? Who are they, what do they do & WHY has the more recent spat between 2 of them become more than a “spat”

In the good old days we had adverts posted on cars, packs of cigarettes, walls, Advertising boards, sports centres, stadiums & so forth. The “Social Influencers” back then were Models wearing “haute couture” in magazines found at the dentist’s, doctor’s etc. We may have wanted something like they were wearing -and if it was a practical item we may have gone & got the pattern, material & made something along the same lines. When we wore these items out they in a very small way became a “Social Influence”. Time moves on

Today we see, hear & almost smell things that are “up for grabs” often things not really what is needed or even wanted are landed on our doorstep 36 hours after clicking the item on the internet. We have so much more to “influence” our minds & groups of people started to realise that if they brought things they used, or knew a famous person use/wear/like then they could “push” the somewhat sheepish mindset of the not very observant public into clicking, liking & if it worked – into buying that item. Reviews get posted online & suddenly there is a “Trend” So what happened last week with two SI’s that got them all caught up into something that became racial?

I am NOT a fan of either of these women – I personally think that both of them are making headlines for the wrong reasons & that is what is wrong with our “Media output” these days – we now only look for negatives instead of positives. There are at least two sides to every coin (I count three – head, tail & edge!) and we are all entitled to have our own view. It seems however, some people dont like that we have a different viewpoint from theirs & this is where things start to go wrong: 12 June 2020 extracts from BBC

A Canadian broadcaster has pulled the TV series of a fashion stylist who was accused of white privilegein a row with a black social media influencer. SE  had a dispute with JM over her (“lack of”) support for the anti-racism protests sweeping the US.

SE said the TV presenter, a close friend of MM threatened to damage her career. JM 40, has since apologised to SE, accepting she should have done more to speak out against racism. See below where I take the so called threat apart.

On Thursday, Canadian network CTV said JM’s reality TV show, I Do, Redo, had been removed with immediate effect. The network said the show – which saw couples redo weddings that had gone wrong – had been withdrawn from all its channels and platform because  JM’s conduct conflicted with its “commitment to diversity and equality”.

In a statement on Twitter, JM said she respected CTV’s decision and had decided to step back from professional life for the time being. The network’s announcement was made after SE recounted (so this was done after everything had happened, & SE “re-told her side of the argument thus making it more salacious) details of her argument with JM in a 12-minute-long video posted to her Instagram page.

What did SE say?

SE said JM “took offence” with SE’s statement that JM wasn’t promoting enough of the Black Lives Matter movement, which has spearheaded protests in response to the killing of George Floyd in police custody.

“What happened next was a series of very problematic behaviour and antics that ultimately resulted in her [JM] sending me a threat in writing last Wednesday,” SE said.

The social media influencer, who has more than 100,000 followers on Instagram, said the threat was a textbook example of “white privilege”.

THIS IS THE START OF RAMPING UP SE’s ACTUAL racial slur!

SE Instagram: I’ve been silent. Not anymore!
I’m used to being so transparent on this platform. I think it’s the main reason why most of you follow me. Today, I’m opening up about something that has been haunting me for the last week. I have felt like a complete fraud fighting for racial equality and using my voice openly here, while letting a white woman silence mine behind closed doors. In sharing this very personal story, I know that I am risking a lot. Opening myself up to criticism, bullying and potential ramifications with my job in this space. However, I must speak my truth. Enough is enough. Hopefully my voice will be heard by many and help change things for the next generation and for my daughter Maxwell… because I will be dammed if my child ever has to deal with this level of ignorance. End of Instagram post by SE

In a message to SE, JM allegedly wrote: “I have also spoken to companies and people about the way you have treated me unfairly. You think your voice matters. Well, it only matters if you express it with kindness and without shaming people who are simply trying to learn. Good luck.”

Is this really threatening? Break it down – I have spoken to companies & people about the way you’ve treated me – i.e. friends in positions in companies she worked with, & other people. Their answer was obviously the next comment “You think your voice matters? Well it only matters if you express it with kindness & without shaming people who are trying to learn” – I actually DO NOT see this as a threat, just how JM obviously needed support from others on why SE was calling her a racist because JM wasn’t 100% BLM on her “platform”.

WHY SHOULD ANYONE BE 100% PRO anything because OTHER PEOPLE THINK IT’S IMPORTANT?

We all choose what we want to be important to us – can’t we? 

Is our right to have our own opinions still functioning?

The message, SE said, left her “paralysed in fear”. A GROWN -UP WOMAN WITH A HUSBAND & CHILD IS PARALYSED IN FEAR? WTF! Talk about going OTT!

“She is very well aware of her wealth, her perceived power and perceived privilege because of the colour of her skin and that, my friends, gave her the momentary confidence to come for my livelihood in writing,” she said. She also expressed disappointment that JM had not used her platform to support Black Lives Matter, despite being “very vocal” about other causes.

This is the CRUNCH of the entire “spat” & when it suddenly went into “Racism”

This was surprising, SE said, given JM’s friendship with “one of the most famous black women in the world”, referring to  Markle. – Hang ON a moment you cannot use this as a reason to charge a person as a racist because she doesn’t support your movement 100% on her personal platform. Why SHOULD SHE? OR ANYONE? ALM! (All Lives Matter)

What did JM say in response?

She has shown contrition in two separate statements she released on her Twitter and Instagram profiles.

“As some of you may have seen, SE and I had a disagreement,” she wrote, in a statement shared with her almost 400,000 Instagram followers on Thursday.

“She rightfully called me out for not doing enough when it came to engaging in the important and difficult conversation around race and injustice in our society. “I took it personally and that was wrong. I know I need to do better. Those of us with a platform must use it to speak out.” She apologised to SE, saying she did “not intend in any way to jeopardise” her career. Mrs. M she had “no intention of pursuing any legal action”, countering reports that SE had been “privately threatened with a law suit”.

SE– Instagram

It’s taken me a long time to jump back on here and share something on my feed. I admire all of you posting on your feeds either amplifying your own voice or amplifying black voices. I have found the last week incredibly exhausting. Trying to maintain my composure in this space witnesses optical allyship, gaslighting, media propaganda and just flat out ignorance. Having to stay strong and positive at home, fearing my energy will be absorbed by the most important person to me, my child.
Truthfully, I am also still incredibly shocked that I am witnessing a time where my people have been given the mic to finally speak our truth after being silenced for 400 years. With that comes a feeling of being overwhelmed…well for me anyways. I just told a friend this morning as I broke into tears, that it’s like I’ve had my lips sewn shut for 40 years and someone has just cut the thread, allowing me to finally speak about all I’ve witnessed and endured being a black female growing up in Canada and living in the US. Like where do I even start?
And now that the conversations are finally flowing, I think I can speak on behalf of other black women (and perhaps men as well) I am now realizing the amount of microaggression and racism I was exposed to throughout my life and expected to suppress. Can’t lie, I am so angry. Realizing that some of the shame I may have felt when I was younger wasn’t my fault, but the fault of people’s ignorant, privileged, problematic behaviour <insert long exasperated sigh here

I have a role. I have a voice…no matter how many people try and tell me I don’t. As the days and weeks pass, our timelines will inevitably drift back to more posts about our everyday lives and sponsored content, but I’m going to promise to not stop talking or sharing. We have come so far and we ain’t going back because #blacklivesmatter End of SE’s 2nd Instagram Post

It is my personal feeling that we are entitled to our own amount of “support for other causes” when on our social media sites. There should NOT be an ALL WHITE or ALL BLACK definition which we have to conform to. No one should have the right to force another into changing what they believe or put up in support of anyone else.

In total honesty not one person on this planet is “White” or “Black” – we are all “coloured” just some more deeply than others. Think of how much money goes into less coloured folk trying to go darker in saloons, on the beach or in their homes with some weird stuff they slap on their legs, arms etc.

Whilst the world is still reeling from Covid-19’s first round, Riots have covered the globe with some of the most extreme violence towards others including pulling down or desecrating statues which are part of the UK’s history. I view history as this : History is where we look back & learn from, make better choices from & of course get that 20:20 vision called Hindsight. We then take what we have learned (I am assuming that the majority of people are doing this!) & use that to shape our future – Look back & Learn, Look forward to life.

I am not condoning bulling behaviour, nor am I being racist in my thoughts, there is a difference between your thoughts/words & racism. This post is neither racist or bullying – it is meant to be a reasonably logic based post for discussion.

T’was on a Monday Morning

The Food-Van Cometh 
Covid-19 spin on an old well-known tune! Flanders & Swann “The Gas man cometh”

'Twas on a Monday morning 
The delivery van did call 
The kids were tired and starving
We’d got no food at all 
He drove right up reversing hard
And hit the flipping wall
So, I had to call a builder to come and fix the wall
Oh, it all makes work for front liners folk and all

Now here we are on Tuesday
The builders just arrived
They had so many bits around
It seemed all was going proud
They pulled out all the masonry
& took the concrete back
& suddenly came across a deep dividing CRACK
Oh, it all makes work for front-liners folk and All

By Wednesday the Surveyor called
He banged hard on the door
We didn’t really hear him until we heard a ROAR
He’d knocked so hard the glass fell out and shattered on the floor
I had to call a glazier to come here on a call
The list of workers grew again as we gazed upon the door

Now here we are it’s Thursday 
the glaziers rang the bell
But as he came inside the house he slipped and then he fell
the ambulance came fast and it even rang its bell
The cost of this is getting daft my week’s becoming hell
Just to add a cherry here, & I’m out of work as well

At last it got to Friday morn
Adding trouble day by day
The wall was fine the glass was good
I thought we’d got away
But deep inside my belly was a rumble very loud
When we realised all these workmen
Had now become a crowd
Oh, it’s all right work for the first line workers

On Saturday and Sunday
We all tried to take a rest
Trying hard to do what’s now the norm, society’s a test
in isolation we have found, our singing on the net,
to keep our minds and souls intact,
whilst waiting for what’s next,
Oh! We all clap our hands for our brilliant NHS

Our lives have gone quite mad down here
in fact, we’re really wild
with social distancing the norm these days
and staying home inside
we’ve lost the art of going shopping
as deliveries become the norm
OH Shit! just realised a delivery’s due-
on Monday in the morn.

FIN/END




(We’ll see our family and friends finally in the flesh - Hopefully NOT too much longer!)



My Tragic Life as a Royal

Chapter 2

Dear reader I am sure that by now you will have read the first chapter of my tell all book it was a very broad spread so from here on I will be covering the early years and gradually bring my long life with the British Royal Family to you in chapters so I miss nothing out. It would be incorrect to lead you away from my bounty & beauty after all, I know how much you all love me.

So, this is from the “early days” when I had met Harry & how things went from there. I was still filming my large role in Suits – I was in all seven of the series & had an eight been on the block you can be assured I would have been in there, but my getting to know H (H – “aitch” as I call him) meant I had less free time to devote myself to the many charities I worked for whilst in Canada.

Did you know how I would take the unwanted food from the site where we filmed, & took it to the local homeless, unwanted & unwashed people nearby? I felt it showed just what a fantastic humanitarian I was & am of course. I even managed to urge some of my lesser co-stars to join me in this & of course my BFF (For EVER!) Jessica M would come up with her babies & join in.

Jessie’s babies were ok held at a distance after all I didn’t want baby puke all over me, far too important to have that happen. It was weird that a couple of my cohorts from the show were able to pick up the boys without the screaming whereas they made foul sounds & even fouler smells when I picked them up. I still have problems with children today even our sweet little son Archie – he’s a daddy’s boy…

I met Harry in 2016 very briefly & at that point my life was with my Chef boyfriend was still fun & loved me so much I wasn’t really concentrating on Harry – we had a bit of a fling (don’t tell the chef) – it really was more about sex than anything, after a few weeks I let Harry go (Many people are being cruel and are saying Harry dumped me – but why would ANY MAN dump me when I offer such amazing sexual delights? At that time I wasn’t really concerned, the final suits hadn’t been discussed & I knew for CERTAIN I would be given another if not BIGGER role in any more series, plus England is always wet & damp…  Which is where we met (I think, y’know it’s getting really hard to remember where we went when and why! Such is our busy wonderful loving life)

I was still living with Cory & he helped me look after myself – I’d been a bit low after my 2nd husband demanded a divorce & demanded I send him the wedding band & engagement ring back to him – so I had to Fed-ex them to LA from Toronto. (it looks as if I was doing the breaking up, but really it wasn’t me, even though Trevor got me my job in Suits, we were drifting apart due to the distance from LA & Toronto. Plus, I met Cory & we had SO MUCH Fun!! not just maple syrup y’know??! Continue reading “My Tragic Life as a Royal”

The Sussex Legal Team Rebuked By Justice Warby

Thank you for going through this. Gee Whizz I fell asleep as it was so very long & petty. It sounds entirely as if MM has written what her legal team may say, rather than allowing them to use their legal experience & education.
Just because MM worked on a legal show does not mean she has an ounce of knowledge regarding law! And from the number of quotes of how to write a plea, how to present a case & how to know “fact from feelings”  from the Judge I really do think her team were sent with HER words only!

It is incredibly embarrassing for a legal team to be told to go back & read your edicts of law before coming into a court & presenting a load of “blah” which has no place in law. This is a high Court FFS! Surely Shillings should know HOW to present a case correctly – have they not advised their client to stop before the money costs gets out of hand? If I was the claimant I would have stepped down (mind you I wouldn’t have gone to court in this manner – if ever TBH.

It only goes to show that MM’s ego is SO big she STILL thinks she can “sway anyone” to work in her favour! It is unbelievable & inconceivable that she really thinks that pursuing this will even get a penny from AP/MoS. She is setting herself up for doing something very stupid. “One does NOT open a mouth to say they understand something when out comes the proof that they are so incorrect as to merely indicate the stupidity of opening your mouth” Basically THINK before you speak!

Time for another spoof from me to show how MM really didn’t want her wedding televised (ROFL!) Nor should the media have taken her photograph before she had approved it, applied copyright etc. – will be back later with another chapter of MEME’s tragic life as a Royal.

A Boffin's avatarHarry Markle ~ Traditional British Pro-monarchy Satire!

The pre-trial hearing on 24 April, 2020 of the case between MM and Associated Newspapers Limited lasted nearly six hours, and fundamentally it was about removing smokescreen claims (from the Particulars of Claim) that the Claimant had insisted on as a distraction. From the outset it was clear from a point of law that the claims were irrelevant to the heart of the case, and the law is specific, therefore the evidence had to be directly related to the case in hand which revolves around the reproduction of extracts of a letter MM had sent to her father in a newspaper.

The court was comprised of Justice Warby, Mr Antony White (QC) for Associated Newspapers Limited (Defendant), and Mr David Sherborne for Schillings (Claimant).

On 1 May, 2020, Justice Warby delivered his verdict on the claims put forward in the pre-trial hearing the week before by the claimant (MM) that…

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